"Never give children
a chance of imagining
that anything exists
in isolation.
Make it plain
from the very beginning
that all living is relationship.
Show them relationships
in the woods,
in the fields,
in the ponds and streams,
in the village and
in the country around it.
Rub it in."
-- Aldous Huxley, Island
Photo by Michael Hilsenrad
from the 1991 facsimile collection of
The San Francisco Oracle (1966-1968)
from the "Variations" chapter.
I met Laura Huxley two years ago while working on my documentary
film, Hofmann's Potion. At that time, I knew more about her late husband
Aldous because I had read so many of his books. I discovered Laura to be the
living embodiment of the values he espoused in Island, his last and most
idealistic novel. Since then she's become one of my most important teachers.
Laura can't understand why a person would ever set out to harm them-
selves or anyone else. Her vision of the world is simple and honest. Since
Aldous died in 1963, Laura has spent her life working for the well being of
children around the world. She has written several books and founded a non-
profit organization that educates underprivileged kids: Children: Our Ulti-
mate Investment. Her foundation has several programs; I'll mention two of
them here. The first is the Caressing Room Project, wherein senior citizens are
encouraged to enter hospital nurseries and simply hold tiny babies. We all
need touch, and this program benefits the volunteers as well as the babies. The
second program is called Teens and Toddlers. Run through high schools, it
puts young people into day care centers where they are paired with needy
toddlers. This is also a win-win situation. Many of the relationships formed in
this program last well beyond the semester, and the teenagers come away with
a better understanding of what it takes to be a parent. The following is from
the Teens and Toddlers program outline:
Every night in America, 100,000 children are homeless. Every year, nearly 3
million children are reported abused and neglected. While the emergent need to
help correct this situation is clear, we believe that equally urgent is our humane
duty to prevent its repetition. This is the mission of Children: Our Ultimate
Investment. Those abused and neglected children of the night roaming the
streets, using guns and deadly drugs and making even more children, act out of
the emotional framework generated in their very first moments of life. Being
uncared for, they develop a disregard for life, either unaware of or unconcerned
by the consequences of their behaviour... Moral insensitivity, acceptance of
violence, absence of caring and ethics--these are not inevitably an aspect of
those who disregard law and order: the are the tragic consequences of uncon-
scious living. These children have been betrayed from the beginning. In a sane
society, we would all be loved from before the beginning. We have the means,
knowledge and will to stop these tragedies before they become the almost
accepted, logical outcome of past events. These tragedies are our tragedies.
What has this got to do with psychedelics?
At a recent gathering of MAPS members and friends at Laura's house in
Beverly Hills, she pointed out the fundamental similarity of her work and that
of MAPS. While MAPS works towards inner healing with psychedelics, Laura
aims to lessen the need for healing later in life by providing a more nurturing
world for children. Psychedelic therapy can help people to open up to their
emotions and connect to others; a nourishing childhood can prevent the
shutting down and closing off in the first place.
If anyone is in a position to help humanity, it is those of us who have had
the psychedelic experience: we don't need to have relationships pointed out to
us, since so many of us have first-hand experience of the interconnectedness
of all life. If we all had access to the tools of enlightenment, we could all be
free. The question is, what will we do with this freedom? Laura's work with
children is one example of a positive direction that such freedom can take.
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